{{user}} — guided builder

Click chips to add. Dropdowns for the big stuff. Type freely in any text box. Pick what fits, leave the rest blank.
1 / Surface — what a stranger sees
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Pure sensory data. The AI uses this to describe, greet, and react to your physical presence. No name, no identity, just signal.
petite lean average athletic muscular curvy soft / padded heavy-set tall short
short medium long shaved straight wavy curly coiled dark light red dyed greying
streetwear business grungy elegant workwear oversized form-fitting vintage goth period dress
soap sandalwood smoke floral leather sweat laundry coffee alcohol
Tone:
low / gravelly warm sharp soft deadpan animated hoarse
Speech patterns:
clipped rambling swears a lot rarely swears formal slangy measured interrupts
expansive contained fidgety still strong eye contact avoids eye contact leans in keeps distance touchy touch-averse
2 / Basic — introductions
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Identity markers. The AI uses these to address you and place you in context.
OCEAN
Quick personality scaffold. Pick the side that fits or leave blank.
Openness
curious practical
Conscientiousness
organised spontaneous
Extraversion
extraverted introverted
Agreeableness
agreeable blunt
Neuroticism
reactive calm
Other observable traits
sarcastic loyal impatient dry humour self-deprecating confrontational avoids conflict protective stubborn proud soft on animals distrusting
The emotional default state when entering a scene. The AI calibrates tone against this.
3 / Deep Lore — the wiring
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This is what makes the AI feel like it knows you. Triggers, wounds, defences. The AI reads this to predict your reactions and bring up real things at the right moment.
attachment theory
How they bond and pull away. Massively shapes how the AI reads pursuit and distance.
archetype
The original injury that still shapes them. Pick one or layer multiple. The AI uses this to know what hurts.
abandonment betrayal rejection humiliation injustice neglect loss powerlessness guilt invisibility
2-4 past events that still echo. Bullet form is fine.
psychodynamic
How they protect themselves when something hits too close. The AI uses this to recognise when it's pushed a button.
humour / deflection withdrawal lashing out intellectualisation denial projection fawning dissociation self-sabotage picks fights
trauma response
Default reaction when threatened or pressured.
Stimuli that get a real reaction — good or bad. The AI watches for these.
love languages
How affection actually registers as affection. The AI uses this to know what "counts".
words / praise quality time physical touch acts of service gifts
motivation
What they actually want, conscious or not. The AI uses this to know what to offer.
to be seen to be chosen safety to be needed to be contained control / power surrender forgiveness admiration belonging
Ongoing ties the AI can reference.
4 / Sexual — escalation & response
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How the AI escalates, reads cues, and reacts. Stimuli and responses, not a porn script.
kink dynamics
How they enter a scene. The AI uses this to know who's driving.
What visibly shows. The AI watches for these to read state.
flushes shallow breath lip biting can't sit still dilated pupils tremble voice drops goes quiet gets verbal
How they react once it's happening.
vocal quiet grabby moveable reciprocates hard hides face eye contact cries easily nervous laugh goes nonverbal
Specific stimuli the AI can use to escalate. Get specific — vague turn-ons make vague scenes.
being pinned neck hair pulling praise light degradation eye contact slow undressing teasing / edging rough worship dirty talk throat / breath marking public risk
consent
What makes them shut down. The AI should avoid these full stop.
How the AI handles them after.
held in silence water / food reassurance jokes to deflect wants space clean-up debrief sleeps
5 / Meta — OOC guidance for the AI
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Out-of-character instructions. This is where you tell the AI how to play with you. Often the difference between a great session and a frustrating one.
Tell the AI what kind of session this is. Slow burn? Action? Therapy?
slow burn immediate intensity banter / chemistry hurt-comfort enemies to lovers found family adventure / plot domestic / quiet dark / morally grey
Critical: the AI should react to {{user}} without acting for them. Reinforce that here.
never puppet {{user}} initiate proactively describe reactions when unclear leave room to respond third-person limited
Topics or actions the AI must avoid entirely. Different from kink limits — these are story-level.
prose-heavy dialogue-forward fast pacing immersive / long show don't tell no purple prose explicit / direct suggestive
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